Sunday, February 10, 2013

It’s February! Happy Disenfranchised People of Color Month



American History Collage

It’s February –that time of year when we celebrate folks who happen to be born with extra pigmentation in their skin.  Insincere praise lavished on a group of people based on skin color, is not my idea of honoring the accomplishments of anyone. Black history is month is on par with adopt a cat month, or asbestos awareness month, it means little but says volumes –it says we don’t think of ourselves as part of America, but a separate entity, that needs to be recognized in order to feel validated.

Well, a celebratory month each year ought to appease the guilt some experience in regards to past wrongs done to Blacks in this country. Everyone feels great when talking about the triumphs of Harriet Tubman, and Frederick Douglass; replaying speeches by Dr. Martin Luther King, and showing that iconic picture of Rosa Parks being arrested. We see their images, hear snippets about what they did -than we pat ourselves on the back, fold up the tents and put that stuff away until the next year. But doesn’t all of the fake celebration miss the point? All of the people who are being honored fought so that we wouldn’t be judged by our color, so that we would be treated as equals, seen for who we are and not what we look like. Black History month does the opposite of what it sets out to do, it makes everyone see Black people as radically different than the rest of society, and because of the horrible way our ancestors were treated, we must be held to a different standard.

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

F is for $#&@



A few weeks ago, after a particularly difficult conversation with an old friend, I posted on Facebook that “People Effing Suck.” Except I didn’t use that cute little euphemism, I said it - THE F word. Sitting there at my desk looking at that word, with the cursor hovering over the blue ‘post’ button, I wondered if I should click it. Well click it I did -because sometimes when life seems to be giving you the finger, no other word will suffice like the F Bomb. 

But I’m a Christian, and there are certain expectations we are supposed to live up to; some are biblical, while others are more personal preferences rather than Biblical principles. When it comes to cursing, the school of thought tends to be along the lines of Ephesians 4:26, “Be angry and do not sin…” But that seems to be the go to verse whenever Christians get angry –at times it seems as if just the anger itself is sinful, even though the verse explicitly states that we can indeed “be angry.”

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

New Year’s Resolutions And The Continual Hope In All Of Us



Every year there are all sorts of articles encouraging us to make our resolutions, and giving us tips on how to fulfill them. We start each New Year with a renewed optimism that this is the time where we’ll lose all that weight, or fulfill some lifelong dream we’ve held on to. I’m no different, for 2013 I have pledged to finally start exercising regularly and lose those unwanted pounds, get more foot traffic to my blog, work on that novel I’ve been trying to write for ages, and get the house more organized –as the kids get older, I can no longer use them as an excuse. Resolutions are a natural inclination for us humans; it is what propels us willingly into an uncertain future.

Monday, December 24, 2012

The Most Wonderful Time Of Year -With A Caveat





“It’s the most wonderful time of the year…” Can you just hear Andy Williams’ smooth vocals coming over the PA system at the mall or in the grocery store? Well he’s right, this can be a wonderful time of year, but it can also be a stressful and wearisome time -when Black Friday turns into Black Thursday and is the major focus of the holiday season; or when harried moms and dads shamelessly fight over the latest must have toy for their children –at 50% off of course; or when the pressure to buy things we may want, but not need overshadows the true meaning of the season. Still, I love this time of the year because for at least a few weeks during winter, people try a little harder to be nicer to each other, think more about giving to those who don’t have as much, and smile at strangers when at other times they’re not as apt to.

This Christmas however, our celebrations are less cheerful as we mourn for the victims killed by an evil individual on December 14th, 2012 in Newtown Connecticut. When I think about how these families will never share another holiday season with loved ones, and try imagining the pain they must be feeling, the stark reality of it forces me to place the focus where it should be - on the people I love and care for, and not on the gifts that I give them.

Friday, November 30, 2012

My Argument Against Digging That Moat



Lately, the idea of digging a moat around my house and filling it with water and man eating alligators, is becoming more and more tempting with each passing day. The reason behind my isolationists feelings are simple; a good friend of nearly ten years just recently gave me a good kick in the gut, than just for good measure, stomped on my heart –metaphorically speaking of course.  
I know I have hurt others -accidentally and on purpose, we all have. But I have to admit that after having someone who’s known me for ten years accuse me of some real ugly things, I fell into a ‘people suck’ mode, and am having a hard time digging my way out of it.

Monday, November 19, 2012

Dashboard Jesus



Buddy Christ

Soldiers say there are no atheists in a fox hole. I would bet that after Obama won re-election some of us felt like we were in a fox hole and if we hadn’t already, found God pretty quickly. It’s easy to get into a bunker mentality if Obama winning re-election was what you feared the most, if you spent the last year, like me, pinning all your hopes that America’s survival was dependent on the defeat of Barack Obama.
I’d like to sit here and say that my faith held strong despite who won, but I would be lying if I didn’t admit that I had put my chosen candidates on a pedestal, like idols, while God was reduced to one of those Jesus dashboard figures that sway back and forth as you speed down the road.

Saturday, October 13, 2012

The Teeth: The Finale




This week at The Writer’s Block, I’m posting the final part of my original short story “The Teeth.” If you missed parts 1 & 2, just scroll down and catch up before reading the finale. I hope you enjoy, and thanks for visiting my blog. AN

The Finale

“She was asking for my help Lou.” Max said again, this time she sounded frightened. “I know it was just a dream but it started to feel prophetic, as if the dream returned just so I could help her.” Max looked at Lou and waited for her friend to wonder out loud if she were insane -or worse, laugh at her, believing that Max had lost her mind.
Lou did anything but; for the first time since they sat down, she set aside her food and gave her friend a big hug. Lou was the only person who knew about this dream, and how much Max feared its return. Regardless of why the dream was back, Lou wanted to be supportive -laughing or doubting her friends’ sanity was the furthest thing from her mind.